SETTING STANDARDS

Hi FAM... Hope the world has been as nice to you as it has to me? Well, I noticed that some people don't have any set standard when it comes to dating... About half of those that do, set their standards based on physical outlooks and financial capability. That's not a bad standard to set because people want a partner that is presentable and who is not totally dependent on them financially. It becomes a problem when superficial attributes get used as the only yardstick for setting standards. First, you need to know that you are an extremely special being.. Don't let anyone tell you otherwise. When you realise your worth, setting standards becomes much easier...

Last time I checked, relationship goes beyond beauty and money so when setting standards in your relationship, it should go way beyond beauty and the money...
Set realistic standards.... Think about your future and set standards based on how you want your future to be like.. Trust me, in ten years, you will probably outgrow certain things that you enjoy and crave for right now... When you set certain standards for yourself especially in your relationships, you find that you don't have little or no heartbreaks when compared with someone that has no standards set..
For instance, here's the set standard for Miss A

• He must be handsome
• He must have a house and at least two cars
• He must be earning at least 6digits monthly
• He has to be able to take me on a vacation twice a year
• He should be good in bed

Here's the set standard for Miss B

• We have to share the same faith
• He has to have a set goal for the future
• He should be able to encourage me in my personal endeavours
• He should be a focused, straightforward and hardworking human
• He should be able to be faithful to me

This is just example I set to show  the depth of some standards. Miss A's standards look better than Miss B's own at first glance.. But as you look at it more, you realise that Miss B's own is has more substance and depth than Miss A's own... Any rich guy can meet MissA's standard along with a whole lot of other girls own. Which translates to a higher chance of heartbreak... I hope was able to make a bit of sense in this article. Will make updates ... Feel free to send your suggestions to dannie.ucheagwu@gmail.com and don't forget to drop your comments..