LETTING GO

I'm so sorry I have not been posting as usual... Travelled for some family matters and the network signal in the places I've been has been weak.. I'm back to base now so everything should get back to normal...
I'm going to be talking about Letting Go... This is the most difficult phase of break up... It feels like you are giving up on someone who at some point meant a lot to you.. Truth is sometimes holding on does more damage than letting go... It is a difficult position to be in but it usually is the best way to complete the break up because if you don't totally let go, your next relationship is going to be a disaster...

First, you have to realize that the fact that you guys broke up doesn't make you a bad person. People come and go.. It's just a process that will help shape you into who you are meant to be... Then DELETE the human being from all your social media pages... I mean all... Facebook, Twitter, Whatsapp, Instagram, Tumblr and the rest..  That is just how you will move forward.. Throughout that period, try as much as possible to cut all forms of communication with that person... It is difficult i know but focus on the greater good... It will take quite a while and a whole lot of self control to be able to pull this off but you will get through just fine...