ASK DANNIE...

Earlier on today, someone asked me a question that got me thinking.. She said “Dannie, how is it that someone says he loves you and he still cheats on you"?. My first thought was he doesn't really love you (I didn't say that to her though)... I kept quiet for a while and then I said to her “he cheats on you because he feels you won't find out, and even if you do find out, he knows you love him enough to forgive him and still stay with him". We chatted for a bit and then I had to get going. I left but I was still thinking about the question and I came up with a lot of answers...
Usually, we tend to think that because we get cheated on, our partner doesn't love us.. The truth is we gave the impression early in the relationship that we can cope with a cheating partner, so they cheat not because they don't love us but because they know we will stay... Here's why I think people cheat

• They can get away with it
• They really don't care about how you feel
• Someone is willing to cheat with them
• They are just plain selfish
• They think you won't find out

Feel free to drop your reasons in the comment box..