Tuesday, 19 January 2016

GOING BACK TO YOUR EX...


Some topics are really sensitive so one has to be careful while talking about them. I want to talk about going back to ones ex.. Personally, i am a bit unconfortable with the idea of going back to someone i already broke up with. I had to talk to people to get their opinion on the matter so i won't be talking based on my perception..
Getting back to ones ex is actually a very tricky venture and there are a lot of things to consider before going back to your ex.

  • You should critically think about why you left in the first place. Did you leave because you were cheated on, abused in any form, not treated right, taken for granted e.t.c..
  • You should also think about the reason you want to go back to your ex. Are you going back because your ex is asking you to come back? Are you going back because you think your ex has changed? Is it because your ex is in a better place? There are so many questions you need to ask yourself here.
  • Can you cope if your ex is still the way they were before you left them? Character wise and all.
  • Can you trust your partner once again?
  • Have you totally forgiven your ex for what they did to you that made you break up in the first place?
  • Does the ex really understand why you left?
  • Is the ex ready to make adjustments?
When you are able to answer all this questions, you will be decide if its worth the risk.. But i must say, there is a reason that person is your ex... Deal with that reason before thinking of getting back...

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