I get the “the devil you know is better than the angel you don't know" and the “men are polygamous by nature, it is in their nature to cheat" speech each time I ask questions like this.. And the touchy part is that the speech comes from the female school of thought..
I usually say men cheat cos there is someone somewhere willing to cheat with them but sometimes, the person he is cheating with doesn't even know there is anybody in his life to start with.. It seems like I am shifting all the blame to the guys but the truth is most times, ladies would tell a guy who is asking her out that she has a boyfriend.. So the guy already knows that there is someone in her life.. Guys on the other hand would either say “i just broke up" or “the relationship is not headed anywhere" or some other bullshit their brain comes up with at that particular moment (forgive my manners)..
The question of whether you should take back a cheating spouse or not is best answered by the persons in the relationship themselves.. You are the one there.. You understand your spouse better than anyone else. I am saying this because most of the people that would advice you to quit would probably stay in the relationship if the tables get turned with the excuse that men are polygamous in nature.
Furthermore, If I am asked what I would do if my man cheats on me and wants the relationship to continue, I would say “there are certain situations that I can't categorically state how I would react until I am faced with the reality of that situation".. That's the truth.. So whether you decide to take back a cheating spouse or not depends on you. The only thing I would say here is that you think objectively and logically.. Keep love at a distance and face facts because sometimes, love clouds one's judgement.. Always remember that if you make him/her feel like you will always forgive him/her, you would start to be taken for granted and a mistake made more than twice is usually made out of nonchalance..
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I usually say men cheat cos there is someone somewhere willing to cheat with them but sometimes, the person he is cheating with doesn't even know there is anybody in his life to start with.. It seems like I am shifting all the blame to the guys but the truth is most times, ladies would tell a guy who is asking her out that she has a boyfriend.. So the guy already knows that there is someone in her life.. Guys on the other hand would either say “i just broke up" or “the relationship is not headed anywhere" or some other bullshit their brain comes up with at that particular moment (forgive my manners)..
The question of whether you should take back a cheating spouse or not is best answered by the persons in the relationship themselves.. You are the one there.. You understand your spouse better than anyone else. I am saying this because most of the people that would advice you to quit would probably stay in the relationship if the tables get turned with the excuse that men are polygamous in nature.
Furthermore, If I am asked what I would do if my man cheats on me and wants the relationship to continue, I would say “there are certain situations that I can't categorically state how I would react until I am faced with the reality of that situation".. That's the truth.. So whether you decide to take back a cheating spouse or not depends on you. The only thing I would say here is that you think objectively and logically.. Keep love at a distance and face facts because sometimes, love clouds one's judgement.. Always remember that if you make him/her feel like you will always forgive him/her, you would start to be taken for granted and a mistake made more than twice is usually made out of nonchalance..
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It takes a strong mind to stop videos from playing in your head when you take back a cheating partner. So my gf whom I love so much cheated on me and I wanted to prove strong. I went on with the relationship but I found myself doing what she did in no time (what I wouldn't do with another lady on a norm). After that, I had this 'now we are on the same page feeling'...Believe me, the trust was all gone cos all I do is to watch out if she will cheat on me again. It went down the drain few months later. My Opinion is that I can't. Though I want that strong mind that can forgive and forget. Working towards it is my new challenge.
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